How many times have you been in a relationship and given your all and never gotten an ounce back?
It is important first to supply love. If everyone supplies love, then the world will be filled with love. You need to stop thinking only of what you can take or get.
He doesn’t hug you or kiss you or want to be seen in public with you. She takes everything you do for granted and wants more, but never gives you anything back. These are the kind of relationships that that have made their way in to society and are accepted by men and women.
In this day and time men and women seem to have forgotten what it means to love unconditionally. There is no reason why anyone should feel unloved or less than perfect to their mate. Can we really say there is such a thing as unconditional love? He won’t let me wear this or she won’t let me go there. There are always conditions of being in a relationship.
But do we have to settle for conditions? Absolutely not. People just need to learn all over again what it is to love unconditionally.
If you are dating a married person my question is why? Do you feel you’re not worthy of being loved one hundred percent and need to be shared with someone’s spouse? “But they love me is your claim”. Do they really love you? If they are willing to cheat on their spouse with you then what makes you think they won’t do it to you?
You must first learn to cherish your spouse every single day and learn to love each other without conditions. Does that mean you won’t ever disagree? No it means you can talk to each other about problems that may arise.
If you are constantly complaining to everyone about your significant other, then you need to take a hard long look at your relationship because those people you are complaining to are wondering why you don’t just get out of it and leave that person alone if they make you that unhappy. They get sick of hearing it every single day of their life how unhappy you are.
Do you expect your significant other to do everything for you and yet you do nothing for them? Well if you do then eventually there will be someone who will appreciate them and you won’t have them anymore.
People get tired of just giving love and never getting love in return. If you are a giver and not getting in return then you need to find someone that treasures you for everything you are worth.
Love yourself first so that you may love others better. If you can’t love yourself and do not feel worthy of love then it will be very hard to find someone to love you.
If you are not being 100% loved by your mate then maybe it’s time to rethink your relationship or get some couseling.
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Keeping relationships together is hard but one must take the time they need to work it out.